{"id":2691,"date":"2015-07-30T00:14:42","date_gmt":"2015-07-30T07:14:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/?p=2691"},"modified":"2016-01-20T02:15:42","modified_gmt":"2016-01-20T09:15:42","slug":"in-the-case-of-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/person\/in-the-case-of-person","title":{"rendered":"In the case of $person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel the need to say, if you are *seriously* thinking I would sexually assault you, have you ever thought of how much I would pay to *not have* the memory of having done so? Like, if someone were to ask me, &#8220;I&#8217;ll give you $1 million dollars but you have to have the memory of forcing $person to have sex in a way that hurt her.&#8221;.. Okay. Keep inserting larger values for the million. Keep inserting. You&#8217;re not going to find a number at which I&#8217;d take the deal.<\/p>\n<p>See, to me, *that* is what love is like. You want the person you love to *not be hurt*. This would seem to be kind of basic, love 101, not advanced love, not anything that takes ideas more advanced than you&#8217;d expect to find in the mind of the average 10 year old. If the person *must* be hurt, you would want it to *not be your agency* that hurt them, or even your body. I&#8217;ve already got the somewhat awful situation of it&#8217;s the *idea* of me that&#8217;s hurting $person a little bit, because $person thinks I would do something I wouldn&#8217;t do. (Or maybe she doesn&#8217;t. I could write a whole novel on the subject of that.) <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel the need to say, if you are *seriously* thinking I would sexually assault you, have you ever thought of how much I would pay to *not have* the memory of having done so? Like, if someone were to ask me, &#8220;I&#8217;ll give you $1 million dollars but you have to have the memory [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2691"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2691"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2691\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2692,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2691\/revisions\/2692"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sheer.us\/weblogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}